Summary
In this book, esteemed child therapists Ray Levy, Ph.D., and Bill O'Hanlon, M.S., offer a revolutionary approach to parenting that's guaranteed to reverse your difficult child's behavior-now. You'll receive advice on...
- How you unwittingly may be triggering your child's defiance
- The keys to turning off back talk
- Using consequences to motivate your child to change
- How to use the authors' special Academies technique to teach good behavior... and much more!
Contents
Acknowledgements
Introduction
Part 1: Why Did Our House Turn Into a War Zone?
Chapter 1: Winning the Brat War
Chapter 2: Where Defiance Starts
Chapter 3: Because I Said So
Chapter 4: Other Influences
Chapter 5: Why Aren't These Kids Motivated to Change?
Part 2: Who Has Control of This Joystick?
Chapter 6: May I Have This Dance?
Chapter 7: Parenting Mythology
Part 3: Getting the Monkey off Your Back
Chapter 8: It's His Head, Not Yours
Chapter 9: Avoiding a Power Struggle
Part 4: Upping the Ante by Intensifying the Positives
Chapter 10: Growing Your Relationship
Chapter 11: When Praise Doesn't Work
Chapter 12: Rewarding Small Changes
Chapter 13: The Power of Playtime
Part 5: You Solve It, or "I'll Solve it...and You Won't Like My Solution
Chapter 14: Training Camp
Chapter 15: The Power of Consequences
Chapter 16: Time Out
Chapter 17: Hold Downs
Chapter 18: Guided Compliance
Chapter 19: Pulling In the Reins
Chapter 20: The Academy
Chapter 21: Exercising the Future Muscle
Chapter 22: Parenting Miscues
Chapter 23: United We Stand
Chapter 24: Send-Off
Resources
Index